Have you ever found yourself sailing through a project only to suddenly find yourself flummoxed by the next step you need to take?
There are times when I’m happily progressing toward a goal and suddenly happen upon something that, for one reason or another, stumps me and stops me in my tracks. Recently I’ve become aware that it is usually okay to avoid a step that is holding me back from accomplishing something I want.
I am learning to recognize when a step is vital, and when it would be nice, but not crucial to the success of a project. If the step that is holding me back is not truly important to the completion of my task, I skip it.
If the step can’t be avoided, I re-examine it and see if it can be approached from another angle, or if a similar action can be substituted.
It seems to be working for me. I’m learning how to complete half-finished projects, or how to pass them on to someone who will enjoy finishing them.
The ghosts of unfinished projects past are slowly leaving my life.